Weddings are exciting events to plan. If yours is coming up, there's no doubt you're busy planning the perfect day--getting the invitations out on time, making sure you have selected the right flowers, getting the perfect fit for your dress, and ensuring you'll fit into it elegantly on the big day are all things to consider. While you're busy making sure everything falls into place, here are some simple mistakes to avoid. Bear in mind, there will be little slip-ups that are unavoidable, and most of the time they can be overlooked. However, if you follow these simple rules, you can feel confident that your wedding day will run as smooth as your marriage hopefully will.
Bachelor/Bachelorette party-those last days of single life are sure to be an exciting, yet nervous, time. Many couples fall into the trap of celebrating this occasion on the night before the wedding. Since you want to feel your best, you're better off partying several nights before the big day. That way, you'll feel well rested when you say, "I do."
Last minute details-it probably doesn't need to be said that you don't want to be the bride who goes crazy trying to get everything organized. Don't wait until the last minute to finalize the important things. Call the florist, photographer, and caterer days ahead of time and make sure everything is ready to go. Purchase gifts for the wedding party weeks in advance and wrap them ahead of time. Enlist the help of anyone who is willing and give your helpers clear directives as to what they can do to simplify your life. Always be thoughtful and thankful to anyone who lends a helping hand.
Shoes-this is a commonly overlooked detail. Many brides purchase a new set of heels for their weddings, failing to realize that they are going to be standing anywhere from 8-12 hours that day. Flats are generally recommended unless you're used to wearing pumps. If you insist on those three-inch heels, make sure you wear them around the house before your occasion and break them in. That way they're less likely to make your feet sore.
Avoid the cash bar-while higher attendance is expected at occasions that serve alcohol, it is best to not make your guests feel obligated to pay for a drink. They are honoring you with their presence, and if any travel is involved on their part, the last thing they want to do is spend money on drinks. If it's not in your budget to serve unlimited alcohol, consider serving limited drinks or just wine. Also, you should cover the gratuity costs. Tip jars at wedding receptions are generally frowned upon as well for the same reason as cash bars are.
Priorities-make a list of all the things that are important for you to have on your special day. For most weddings, this list should include flowers, photographer, food and alcohol, the number of guests, and your honeymoon location. Plan a budget well in advance and prioritize the importance of each one. If you do this ahead of time, it will be much easier to make decisions regarding your available options.
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Visit their website to see how they can be of service on your big day: http://bavarianinn.com/weddings/bavarian-inn-lodge-weddings.
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